Nice to know a house is haunted
By Stephanie Cavanaugh
Special to The Washington Post
"As I was walking up the stair
I met a man who wasn't there;
He wasn't there again today.
I wish, I wish he'd stay away."
-- "The Little Man," by Hughes Mearns (1875-1965)
" 'He' sat there in midair, smiling at me from in front of the cold
fireplace. Hands clasped around his crossed knees, he was nodding and
rocking. He faded slowly, still smiling and was gone. . . . He was the
most cheerful and solid-looking little person I'd ever seen."
"He" was one of five friendly ghosts that inhabited Helen Ackley's
18-room Victorian home in the New York suburb of Nyack, or so she
claimed in an article she wrote for Reader's Digest in May 1977.
Sadly for Ackley, the tale came back to haunt her.
When Jeffrey M. Stambovsky contracted to purchase the house in the early
1990s, he and his wife soon began hearing tales of things going bump in
the night. They wanted no part of them -- even if the resident spooks
did, as Ackley boasted, occasionally leave gifts such as "tiny silver
tongs" to toast a daughter's wedding and a "golden baby ring" to rattle
in the birth of her first grandchild.
Stambovsky made his case to the Appellate Division of New York state
Supreme Court and got his deposit back. Because Ackley had publicized
that her house had ghosts, the court ruled, "as a matter of law, the
house is haunted."
The court's precedent, though, was short-lived. By the mid-1990s, New
York and many other jurisdictions, including the District, Virginia and
Maryland, passed what are known as stigmatized property laws. While real
estate agents must pass along information to prospective buyers about
leaky roofs and other physical defects, immaterial items such as a
murder or suicide in the house -- or a ghost -- may now remain shrouded
in silence.
But should you tell anyway?
"Are you out of your mind?" one real estate agent said with a shudder. "Never, never, never tell anyone you have a ghost."
But Don Denton, a branch vice president of Coldwell Banker/Pardoe Real
Estate, disagreed: "I'm of the school that you disclose everything --
but you disclose with the permission of the seller. If you don't, two or
three weeks later the client will be walking down the street and hear
about it and it becomes an issue. They feel taken advantage of."
Washington real estate lawyer Morris Battino thinks the same way. "It
goes with termites and leaky roofs," he said. "People today are
litigation-happy. As far as I'm concerned, the more you disclose the
better. In fact a ghost might turn out to be a good selling point --
something to brag about."
Richard Ellis of Ellis Realty should know. He handled the sale of the
Ackley house and listed it again several years later. "People love the
history of the house," he said. "It appreciated with the marketplace
when it changed hands." The current owners have lived there six or seven
years, he said. "I assume they're happy. They're still there."
Are ghosts a serious issue in the Washington area?
"Hauntings have picked up in the last year," said Bobbie Lescar, founder
and director of the Virginia Ghosts and Hauntings Research Society.
She said the organization gets 70 to 80 calls and e-mails a day. "Not
all say, 'I have a ghost,' " she said. "Some just have questions."
Lescar is not surprised at the number of calls. "Virginia is one of the
most haunted states in the union. As an original colony, it has all that
energy," she said. "Fredericksburg is the second-most haunted city in
the United States, next to New Orleans."
"There are hundreds of ghost sites in the U.S.," said Beverly Litsinger,
a founder of the Maryland Ghost and Spirit Association. "Maryland
probably has 30 or 40. Virginia has 20 or more. There are a lot of
people who believe."
Lawana Holland, proprietor of the Washington, D.C. Ghost Hunting Page,
said she gets "e-mail from people from all parts of the country, even
from overseas, who say: 'This has been happening. . . . We don't know
what to do.' "
Holland, a graphic designer, said she is "more of a researcher than a
hunter -- I have a history background. . . . It's more the nature of
ghosts, where the hauntings are located and why."
Before you jump to the conclusion that your house is haunted, Holland
said, you should look for "a natural cause first -- an electrical
problem or power lines." But sometimes, she conceded, events appear
truly unnatural.
She recalled the time the owner of a local restaurant called. "The staff
was terrified," she said. "They'd seen an apparition of a woman and
mirrors were breaking and things were being overturned. It subsided
after a while, but the cook was still saying his rosary in front of the
oven."
It is possible that the ephemeral nature of this haunting had to do with remodeling.
"Sometimes renovations stir things up," Holland mused. "If you've gone
and changed the home, the land, the place . . . it creates a little more
activity."
Lescar's organization will investigate, but will not intervene. "Our
mission," she said, "is to document and record empirical evidence. We
want scientists to take the paranormal seriously so that some big
research university will devote some money to it. We take a very
scientific approach to something that hasn't been proven by science
yet."
Her volunteer staff conducts about one full-scale investigation a month.
After a phone interview to weed out the "crazies," a team is sent in to
check out the home. "We look for obvious stuff," she said. "Drugs,
tapes like 'Night of the Living Dead' -- to see if they've been watching
too many scary movies."
If supernatural activity is suspected, "We set up surveillance," Lescar
said. "We try to catch phenomena on a tape or camcorder, which is pretty
boring unless something happens." They also monitor room temperature
and electromagnetic activity using an electromagnetic field detector .
Lescar, a technology teacher at Cumberland County Elementary School,
maintains that most spirits are benign. "I've only run across a couple
that had negative energy," she said.
Do people learn to live in harmony with their ghosts?
"Oh yes!" she said. "I had one lady who liked the fact that the house is
haunted, that when she goes on vacation the place is protected." This
family's retainer is "a mean looking old man that looks out the front
window," she said. "They're actually comforted."
But who can you call when an uninvited guest has worn out its welcome?
Litsinger does not claim to bust ghosts; she is more of a mediator. She
will work with you and your haunt to try to find a happy medium.
Litsinger, a consultant for several nonprofit organizations, has always
been comfortable with the spirit world. "As a child I'd see them and
commune with them. I thought everybody did." Her daughter, now 30, also
has the ability, she said. Her husband "won't talk, but the man has seen
full-bodied ghosts."
"People want to know if they really have a spirit," Litsinger said.
"They want to make peace with them so they're not frightened."
Take the case of the mother and son in Ellicott City who were terrorized by . . . something.
"The kid was a teenager and kept playing loud music," Litsinger said.
One night he was going full blast in the basement when he started
hearing noises and noticing that "things" were moving around the room.
Scared witless, he fled upstairs and slammed the door.
Then, realizing he had left the light on -- No! Don't open that door! --
he opened the door, reached in to flip the switch . . . and the door
slammed shut on his head.
Mama called in Litsinger, who communed with the speechless wraith via an
EMF. (Hers is equipped with a gauge that allows "yes" and "no"
answers.)
"The ghost was an old, old, old lady and she didn't like his music,"
Litsinger said. As long as the boy kept the volume down, the specter
indicated, the scare tactics would cease. "She was very happy to chat. I
liked her a lot."
Sadly, the intervention did not bring about a lasting detente. The lad
was not about to give up his music and the family decided to move.
Litsinger was more successful at solving the problem of a woman in Glen
Burnie whose tenant was "a very pleasant man -- a full-bodied ghost who
just smiled at people."
While the family had grown used to him, his appearance at dinner parties was unsettling.
Litsinger discovered that the man, who had died in the house, had been a
jeweler. He told her that he had dug out the floor by hand to make a
workshop, was quite proud of it and did not want to leave. (It was, in
fact, the only house in the neighborhood with a cellar, she later
found.) With Litsinger's help, the lady of the house struck a deal with
her smiling spook: He could stay, as long as he kept to the basement.
"People often make peace with ghosts," Litsinger. "They're just people
in another incarnation. And just like you, they don't like to be
ignored. They like to have their presence acknowledged. Sometimes
they'll leave when you ask. If they don't feel like it, they won't."
Traditionalists might prefer to call in a priest to roust their demons.
The Rev. Michael J. O'Sullivan, pastor of St. Peter's Church on Capitol
Hill, has some experience with them.
"Oh my, yes," he said. "The rectory is haunted."
The first step, he said, chuckling, should be to "try a little Guinness."
If that does not help, he said, "I'd go in and bless the house."
If that still does not help, "and if there truly seems to be some
supernatural being," O'Sullivan suggested calling the archdiocese
offices.
Every archdiocese has a specialist in casting out demons -- at least, he
said, that is what he learned from reading "The Exorcist."